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Spicy sex: Recipes that bring you closer than ever

I saved this chapter and the next one for advice on how to bring the oomph back into your sex life, and your relationship. I know that so far you were mostly told ways to become more intimate with your partner, to connect on so much more ways than ever before, but that doesn’t mean that this is all you have to do in the bedroom.

Intimate sex has room for creativity also! You don’t have to settle for a lot of caressing and languid, romantic kissing. The hot and bothered sex that I’m sure it’s always lingering in your mind has to be present also.

That’s why I’m giving you here a few alternatives to the traditional “rules” of making love, for you to spice up the action in the bedroom and beyond. Start applying them tonight!

1. Do it in the shower, not in the bedroom

A shower is not only meant to get you clean. It also has some pretty sensuous possibilities, and women often fantasize about being “caught” soaping themselves. So, if you want to see her smile, just step into the shower and ask, “May I join you?”

By giving her some wet, warm and soapy attention- don’t jump right from the start with intercourse- she’ll feel appreciated and cared for, not merely a sex object. If she wants to do it right then and there, you know what to do, but if she doesn’t, it doesn’t matter, the shower in itself should have given you a nice clean start to the rest of the evening. If you know what I mean.

2. Touch her other places

Couples that have been together for any length of time can fall into patters of lovemaking. That is, they caress one another in similar ways each time they make love. At the risk of generalizing, men are probably quicker to fall into a pattern of going for the hot spots right away, forgetting about some of the subtler areas that might have been explored earlier in the relationship.

Surprise your partner next time you are in bed by touching her everywhere but between her legs or on her nipples, at least until she asks you to. Instead, use your hands anywhere and everywhere else. There are plenty of erotic zones on a woman’s body, and they surely need more attention.

      

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